Christmas certainly is the biggest holiday of the year. That first impression when you wake up and see Santa’s bounty – some of those will memories will never die.
But I think I’m writing about Thanksgiving this time. Strange way to start because it’s not my favorite holiday – that would be July 4th, but I remember more Thanksgivings than I do Christmas’s, Valentine’s and July 4ths combined. Crazy, eh? Starting in 1982 or so, we lived outside Anchorage, Alaska on Elemendorf Air Force Base. Most of the military families up there are without family nearby to celebrate Thanksgiving (I think most people’s families would either come in the summer or visit for Christmas) – so that afforded great opportunity to do something together.
We all used to rent a cabin and have Thanksgiving there. It was at a place called the ‘base lakes” – well that’s what us kids called it. And it wasn’t an ordinary cabin – it was the kind of cabin you’d have company banquets at or random family Thanksgivings. I remember there being 50 or more people there each time. Inside was a big room with long tables, and there was another room with the big kitchen. I think the moms were in the kitchen putting together the meal. Us kids – no way. We were outside.That’s why I don’t remember what the dads were doing.
For some reason I remember being taught, by some other kids, the song “On top of old Smokey, all covered with blood . . . ” and then something about a meatball. We all brought ice skates to go ice skating on the frozen lake, did some ice fishing, built snow forts and brought sleds for sledding down the hill and onto the lake. Just the idea that we all had ice skates and knew how to skate – that’s part of growing up in Alaska, I guess. None of the kids around here are prepared for that. (Did you know that most of the schools in Alaska have ice rinks?) I remember being very cold, coming in to get warm, and then going right back out again – many times. I guess the sunlight would have been pretty short lived – but I don’t really remember it being dark at all. That seems strange to me now. I wonder if it was dark . . .
I imagine the soldiers abroad share a similar holiday relationship with the other soldiers. When you’re away from home – away is home and everyone there is family. I don’t recall eating a single sweet potato or slice of turkey. I can’t recall anyones names or even their faces; I guess that’s the bain of moving a lot and losing permanent contact with people. I do remember the laughing, playing and fun.
I guess the hole that is left from things you forget gets gelled over by the overall joy and happiness the memory brings.
Maybe Thanksgiving has been my favorite holiday. I’ll have to think about that. . .





